When meeting people for the first time, regardless of the activity, it is always wise to read and follow the safety guidelines to ensure your safety. Always meet in a safe, public place, and make sure you’re not feeling pressured.
I've forgot my User name and password
If you have forgotten your User name or password either:
- Click here then click on 'Lost Password' and type in the email address you registered with, your details will then be emailed to you.
- Email us with your registration email address and full name, we will then email you with your details.
I haven't received my account activation email, what do I do?
If you haven't received your account activation email please email us with your User ID and email address.
How much does it cost to become a Gold Member?
You can join for FREE, although if you want to use email, chat or instant messenger you need to become a Gold member, which costs ?7.50 for one year. This will enable you to send and reply to unlimited messages to anyone listed on MotivatingMates.com. The charge will allow only paying members to send unlimited emails to other members which will help prevent misuse of the site and stop unsolicited mail (spam).
How can I upgrade to Gold Member?
- Log in go to My Page
- Under My Account click on Upgrade Membership
- Under Select Group click on Gold Members
- Click on Buy credits
- Click on Pay Pal and proceed with the transaction
How can I check my account?
You can check your account when you log in on My Page click on Your Account.
When can I email other users?
As soon as you upgrade to a Gold Member you can email other users.
I don’t want to let other members see my email address, what can I do?
At MotivatingMates.com we use a double-blind email system so you keep your privacy. This double-blind email system replaces your personal email address with your User ID. Remember don’t give out your personal email address until you feel ready to do so. See Security Tips.
How can I stop someone from emailing me?
To stop someone from emailing you, log in and click on Mailbox and the user you want to block email you want to mark as Not Suitable. Click on this and then select Block This User. To view members who you have blocked click on Not Suitable.
How do delete my profile?
- Log in and go to My Page
- Go to My Account and click on Sign Up Info
- Click Membership Termination
How do I update my profile?
- Log on
- Click on My Page
- Under My Profile click on Edit your Profile
- Under Personal Info click on Edit this section
How do I upload my photo?
- Log on
- Click on My Page
- Under My Profile click on Add a Photo
If you can’t upload your photo then check that your photo size does not exceed 500 Kb, and width X height must not be more than 1,000 pixels X 800 pixels. To reduce the size of your photograph use the crop tool in a picture editing program or to check the size click on your photograph and view details on the lefthand side of your screen (for Windows XP).
How can I change my password?
- Log on
- Click on My Account
- Under My registration information click on password modify
How can I change my User ID?
- Log on
- Click on My Page
- Under My Profile click on Edit your Profile
- Under Personal Info click on Edit this section
How can I change my email address?
- Log on
- Click on My Page
- Under My Profile click on Edit your Profile
- Under Personal Info click on Edit this section
How can I add/remove activities from my list?
- Log on
- Click on My Page
- Under My Profile click on Edit your Profile
- Under Personal Info click on Edit this section
What's On Who's Going
What is What's On Who's Going?
What's On Who's Going is a calendar of events, search for an event you'd like to go to add you profile and buddy-up with others.
How can I add my profile to an event?
Log in, search for an event, then click Add Me and your profile will automatically be added.
How can I add an Event?
Log in, click on 'What's On then click on Add Event. Adding events is FREE.
Why can't I add an Event?
You first need to register, click here.
How can I edit my Event?
Log in, go to 'What's On', find your Event, then click on the Event date i.e. 9th, here you will see all Events, choose yours and click edit.
How do I register?
To register just click here. Adding events is FREE.
Can I add attachements to my Event?
At the moment you cannot add attachements to your event.
I still haven’t had my question answered
If you still haven’t had your question answered then either see the Features Page or email MotivatingMates.com, we are always here to help.